God is an ‘equal opportunity’ giver. God loves everybody, it is backed up in his word:
16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16
God has made so much available to us and yet he has never, never forced anything upon us. It is important to understand this point. God established the Lordship of Jesus Christ as head of his church. ‘Church’ does not refer to a pile of bricks on the corner, but the spiritual DNA building blocks in each of our hearts. The body of Christ refers to all those people who have accepted the Lord Jesus Christ and believe he took on the totality of the forces of evil only to be raised victoriously from the dead. That is huge. In doing so we have been translated into the kingdom of God’s dear son (Colossians 1:13).
We have a concrete example of love in Jesus Christ. His leadership, the things he said, the things he did and everything associated with him show us so much about God. Combined with simply reading God’s word and the ‘nudgings’ of the gift of holy spirit in our innermost being, we are fully equipped to enjoy all the benefits of God.
If someone wants to thumb their nose at God and do their own thing, have at it. It is a choice. It is sad, but loving God is a choice. God’s love never fails (I Corinthians 13). However, some people define ‘love’ in such a way that it blows up on a moments notice because it is founded on the popular world view of things. The world is full of evil and pseudo philosophies and ideologies. The profound so-called wisdom of man is often tied into that evil.
God’s hands are tied when people walk away from him. He still loves them but really can’t do much for them since they have turned away from him and are not listening. There are boundaries. God is not the author or promulgator of evil, he is good always and wants the best for every single person on this earth who ever was and ever will be.
Each of us can love in the same way. The world seems to be full of opines and worldly definitions of what it is to love these days. Love doesn’t turn on and off like a light switch. Love is always on the “on”position. There is no darkness when someone truly loves God. If people don’t want to be loved, that is their choice, the love is still there but they don’t get the benefits because they don’t want them.